What is it w/ women and the kitchen?

There are so many comments on men do this and men do that. I want to ask what is it w/women and CONTROL of the kitchen. Man, I want make some cookies w/ the kids and I left your a little flour out. I want to make breakfest for our family in the morning and I get I don't clean up just so exact. Women are kinda controlling when it comes to the kitchen and washing dishes. I mean they have got to be spot on when your doing those things. I think women need to lighten up w/ the help. What do you say. And I'm not whining, no I don't want any cheese. I love the ens out of my women. It's just livin with 'em that is a pain.